Side Bar...

Why is it that men cannot understand that perhaps the female 'personality' that they encounter - is NOT uptight, or frigid, or 'crazy' - but instead - these are simple reactions to their utter incompetence at making someone feel comfortable, respected, or CLEAN while they are around them?

I cite today's occurrence at which a friend who had 'visited' me agreed that I was a little 'uptight'. This, I however profferred as an option/excuse for him to use in light of the fact that I did not feel attracted to him, and therefore did not feel the need to screw him. The thing that pisses me off the most is that he will stick with this idea forevermore - until someone tells him that his photography is shit, and his penchant for being a pornphotographer is quite obvious in the distasteful poses he chooses - and - goddammit - I'm a better photographer than he.

However I like laughing up my sleeve at him with the idea that I'm frigid. Little does he know....